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Breaking free from rejection and emotional dependency

No matter your past, no matter your pain, today can become a day of escape. If Jacob could say, “This is God’s camp,” then you too can come out of the fortress of rejection and enter into a true place of encounter with God. Rejection is not just an emotion… It’s an inner prison, a fortress rooted in the soul that prevents us from receiving the Word, from living in God’s love, from loving ourselves. But by the Spirit of the Lord, the walls fall.

For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God for the pulling down of strongholds. (2 Corinthians 10:4)

Do you want to say STOP to rejection today? Even if there’s just 1% of rejection left, know that 1% is enough for Satan to find a door.

I beg you, make this May 1st the day everything changed. Jacob renamed this place “Mahanaim” because he encountered the angels. Abraham renamed the mountain “Jehovah-Jireh” because he saw God’s provision. And you? What name will you give this camp? This camp is the place of passage, the before-and-after camp, the place where your story is rewritten, the camp of the ruin of all strongholds! But for it to truly be your camp of deliverance, your heart must say: I am coming out, and I want to come out now.

The true origins of rejection

Rejection rarely starts in adulthood. For most people, it all began in childhood. Rejection takes root in the soul through what we saw, what we heard, what we lived—or what we didn’t receive. Take Crescence, for example: this sister, now known as a fighter with a restored heart, was long imprisoned by rejection. It all began in her early years. Her father was strict, at times unfairly harsh, and in her little girl’s heart, a belief crept in: I am not loved. And when her father died, she didn’t cry like the others. She almost rejoiced, thinking she was finally free… But that very day, she laid another stone in the foundation of her fortress.

And that rejection followed her. She didn’t attract attention like her classmates, so she changed to be liked. She became a bully in school, though nothing in her truly matched that role—just so she wouldn’t be alone. She wore masks, accepted toxic relationships, faked everything. But her soul suffered. Her hunger for love was so intense that even in the solitude of her bedroom, she imagined the life she would have with a man. Dreaming of being loved in an imaginary world became a daily occurrence. A virtual world where at least someone looked at her. That is the price of emotional dependency. That is the trap of rejection.

But God did not leave her there. What’s extraordinary is that even without her knowing, God had initiated an appointment. One phrase she heard at home—“Christians will be persecuted in the end times”—was enough to plant a seed. A Facebook invitation served as a wake-up call. And it was through a video, a conference, a sermon, that she had the true encounter. That’s when she knew: I must come out.

The power of the Holy Spirit in restoration

The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because He has anointed Me to bring good news to the afflicted. He has sent Me to bind up the brokenhearted. (Isaiah 61:1)

Beloved, no restoration is possible without the presence of the Holy Spirit. For Crescence, everything changed when she agreed to stop justifying her wound. She had convinced herself: “I don’t need love. Love is not for me. Love is for others.” But the Holy Spirit confronted her. And when her soul admitted: “Yes, it hurts, yes, I need to be loved,” then truth entered. Not through a speech or human counseling, but by the Word of God activated by the Spirit.

She meditated on the cross. She proclaimed what Jesus accomplished. She understood the seven bloodshed events. She absorbed Apostle Yvan’s teachings. And the truth set her free. She realized: “I am not rejected—I am accepted! Demons are rejected, not me! I am in Christ, I am hidden in God!”

It is not by running after human love that we are healed from rejection. It is by grasping the love of God—the unconditional love of the One who never changes. Do not base your worth on the things of this world anymore. You are not loved because you succeed. You are loved because God said:

I have loved you with an everlasting love. (Jeremiah 31:3)

Recognize the symptoms and tear down the strongholds

Before talking about healing, you need to recognize the symptoms. You cannot ask God to set you free from what you refuse to admit. It is in recognition that escape begins.

• Feelings of inferiority
• Emotional dependency
• Hypersensitivity
• Constant need for validation
• Poor self-esteem
• Inability to receive compliments or love
• Compulsive need to be seen or appreciated
• Withdrawal
• Offensiveness
• Constant comparison
• Self-sabotage
• Competitive spirit
• Obsessive perfectionism
• Need for performance
• Inability to forgive

But each symptom is a signal. And today, God is moving. You’re not just attending a spiritual seminar. You’re experiencing a divine operation. Crescence testified: it was by meditating on the cross, absorbing the teachings, and acknowledging her wound toward her father and past hurts that the process began. And God sent a Word to heal her heart. The One who sees everything tore down the heights and delivered her soul.

The keys to liberation: humility, truth, and revelation

• The first key is humility. “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6) That means as long as you say, “No, me, I don’t deal with rejection anymore,” God can’t move. As long as you say, “No, I’m good, I’ve moved on,” you block the anointing from locating your weakness. But if today you say: “I acknowledge, Lord, there are still layers, there are still residues, there are still battles, there are still withdrawals, I acknowledge it!”—then divine power enters and crushes the walls.
• The second key is truth: “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.” (John 8:32) What is your inner truth? What voices still speak in your soul? What image do you have of yourself? It’s not what people say about you. It’s not what you say on stage. It’s what you believe, what you think when you’re alone. It’s between you and you. And as long as you hide the truth, nothing can be transformed.
• The third key is to drink deeply of revelations. Every word is a bomb against the fortress, every revelation shatters a stone of the wall. And God has planted revelations in books, in videos, in teachings—but most of all, within your inner man.

Let’s pray together

1. Lord, I thank You for what You are doing in my life. I choose to renounce façades. I choose to acknowledge that there are still traces of rejection, unspoken sighs, hidden wounds.
2. Father, crush the pride. Tear down the walls. I surrender. I receive Your love. I receive the Spirit of adoption. I call you Abba Father. I am no longer rejected—I am accepted in the Beloved. In Jesus’ name, amen!

🙏 If you’ve never given your life to Jesus, say this prayer:

Lord Jesus, I acknowledge I need You. I believe that You died for my sins and that You rose again. Today, I accept You as my Lord and Savior. Transform my life and lead me on Your path. Amen.

At the heart of the Bible

• Isaiah 61:1 – The Spirit of the Lord is upon me; He has anointed me to heal the brokenhearted
• John 8:32 – You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free
• Galatians 4:6 – The Spirit of His Son cries out in our hearts: Abba, Father
• Proverbs 12:1 – Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge
• 1 John 1:9 – If we confess, He is faithful to forgive us
• Romans 12:1 – Present your bodies as a living sacrifice
• Luke 9:23 – Take up your cross daily

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